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Why All of my Ex-Boyfriends Are Musicians…Emphasis on EX

Stereotypes are not necessarily a good thing, but there is a definite reason that they exist. Musicians, for instance, have a reputation for not being the best boyfriends. The problem is: I happen to only date musicians.

Every single time that I break up with a musician boyfriend I vow to NEVER date another musician…but I always go back. My friends don’t get it. I don’t really get it.

So I present to you…THE PROS AND CONS OF DATING A MUSICIAN

Pro: They are musicians-I am terribly attracted to talent and passion.
Con: They are musicians. There’s a constant crowd, many many other girls all vying for their attention.

Pro: They are not generally “clingy”- which is good for me because I don’t do “clingy”
Con: They tour; and months away from my boyfriend does not a happy Seana make

Pro: They know music, I know music- we have a lot to talk about.
Con: The easy music talk allows us to avoid more serious topics.

Pro: There is something incredibly sexy about a man and a guitar (I have always had a thing for guitar players)
Con: Personal hygiene is often a challenge (for them, not me)

Pro: Spontaneity. No real routine. I can’t take 9-5’ers.
Con: You run the risk of playing second fiddle to the music.

Cons may outweigh the pros and I know (yes, I know) musicians may make bad beaux. But I don’t think there’s any way around it, I’m going to keep going there.

Hopelessly romantically yours,
Seana